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Someone like me

Explore different aspects of identity and how we all might have more in common than you might think with this thought-provoking activity.

You will need

  • A4 paper
  • Pens or pencils
  • Printed copies of the 'Someone like me' cards
Someone like me cards
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This was an activity shared through the ‘Moving Connections’ heritage project. You can find out more in the Scouts’ Refugee response resource.   It’s been adapted from an activity developed by the British Red Cross for Refugee Week in 2017 that celebrated our shared future.

Before you begin

  • You will need 1 set of 12 cards per small group.
  • Use the safety checklist to help you plan and risk assess your activity. Additional help to carry out your risk assessment, including examples can be found here.  Don’t forget to make sure all young people and adults involved in the activity know how to take part safely.
  • You could do this activity as part of World Refugee Day or Refugee Week in June.

Get started

  1. Everyone should get into small groups and each group should be given a set of 12 cards,
  2. The person leading the activity should explain that these cards have different things written on them that all describe different aspects of a person.
  3. Each group should look at each of the cards in turn. They could each take two or three cards and take turns to read them out.
  1. The person leading the activity should ask everyone to imagine that the people described in the cards are coming to join their Scout group next week.

Who would you get along with?

  1. Each group should consider the following questions. You may want to have paper and pens for each group to write down the questions or their ideas.
    • Who they feel they have the closest connection with and why?
    • Which of the people they think it would be easiest to make friends with and why?
    • Who they would be most interested to meet and why?
    • Is there anyone they think it would be harder to get to know? If so, why?
  1. Everyone should get back together as a whole group and share their thoughts.

The plot twist

  1. The person leading the activity should reveal to everyone that the cards they've been looking at are all aspects of the same young refugee from Eritrea, which is in East Africa. The cards have been inspired by what real refugees currently living in the UK have said.
  2. Everyone should come back together as a group and discuss the following questions:
    • Does this additional information change how they think/feel? Why?
    • Does it change how they would respond to/welcome the person into their section?


Now, that everyone knows that these were all aspects of the same young person, what can we learn about our identity and about the identity of others? People might say that that we all have complex stories, and we may have different backgrounds, but we can always find things we have in common.

It can be daunting joining a new group. How could we help new arrivals feel welcome? How can we get to know each other, and enjoy our shared interests and our differences?


All activities must be safely managed. Use the safety checklist to help you plan and risk assess your activity. Do a risk assessment and take appropriate steps to reduce risk. Always get approval for the activity and have suitable supervision and an InTouch process.


Supervise young people appropriately when they’re using scissors. Store all sharp objects securely, out of the reach of young people.